Undistracted Rest
Serving Christian clergy
…rejoicing in hope, persevering in tribulation, devoted to prayer, contributing to the needs of the saints, practicing hospitality. Romans 12:12-13
In 2015, inspired by a pastor’s sabbatical, the Urbans founded Be Still, Inc., a Wisconsin 501(c)3 dedicated to preventing clergy burnout. Leaving the cranberry industry, they self-funded Be Still Retreats in 2016 and devoted their lives to serving full-time. Their children Ruby, Breckin, and Archer- pitch in to keep the mission thriving. Be Still Retreats provides FREE stays for Christian clergy, featuring 5 cottages, a day cabin, a meeting barn, and scenic trails on 170 acres near Plainfield, Wisconsin.
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Welcome to Be Still Retreats
What our guests say

Something Wonderful
“You guys have created something so wonderful here! Thank you for sharing your space and intentionally developing a place that is perfect for renewal. I needed these days! What a [...]

Fruitful
“This was, I believe, the best and most fruitful retreat I have experienced at Be Still. I have been struggling of late with depression and determined it has been Gods’ [...]

Spiritually Revived
“Thank you so very much for the opportunity to get away from our hectic schedules and rest our minds and bodies for the work that awaits us in our ministry [...]

Thanks for blessing me!
“I serve with Cru to reach not just college students in WI but in Bangkok Thailand. Thank you! I so enjoyed resting a bit before I leave for Thailand on [...]

Just what we Needed
“We had a wonderful time of simply resting and relaxing. The setting here is fantastic. We so enjoyed the lake and watching birds between the cottage and the lake. We [...]

What a Gift
“What a gift and blessing it was to celebrate our 12 year anniversary while here and enjoy quality time, rest and fun together after such a busy ministry year. Highlights: [...]

Space to Breathe
“Im leaving here so rested and refreshed – thank you! In a season where staying faithful to my calling has felt difficult without space to breathe, this place offered just [...]

Solace and Rest
“This has been a restorative time for us here. Both in our connection with God and each other. We hadn’t realized how much we needed to pause from the hectic [...]

There’s no other place like it
“Theres just no place like this in the world! We’re so thankful for your hospitality. We came with some big decisions on our hearts and it was priceless to have [...]

Nature’s Nook
“What an amazingly beautiful and relaxing week we have had here. Our family has thoroughly enjoyed the activities and wonder that Nature’s Nook has provided. We have experienced the joy [...]

Restore, Renew and Refresh
“Thank you for the labor of love and hard work in service to our Lord and His church! May God graciously bless your family for your faithful obedience to His [...]

Kinship Casa
“Thank you so much for opening this beautiful home for our staff retreat this week! It has been a sweet time of fellowship and refreshment for our team… and such [...]

Kinship Casa
“This has been such a refreshing getaway for us. Thank you for opening up your home and allowing us to use it. You have created such a beautiful and peaceful [...]

Kinship Casa
“Another wonderful stay in this lovely decorated, well organized, & very clean home! The accommodations are so grand with natural views out every window, & the coziness which it offers [...]

Kinship Casa
“We are so very grateful to have had some time away at Kinship Casa. Thank you for following the Lord’s prompting to have a ministry like this for pastors and [...]

Heaven only knows
“Heaven only knows the impact of your ministry. How many families and local churches would be led by tired, worn-out leaders if not for your humble and yet far-reaching efforts [...]

Obey
“Be Still…I’m blessed every time I obey His command. Thank you for your extreme generosity that aids me in obedience. May you get a glimpse of the fruit your ministry [...]

Draw our focus to Him
“We are so grateful for the opportunity to come stay here again. It was 3 years ago I was transitioning from a difficult ministry and the Lord used our time [...]

Encounter with the Lord
“Thank you Be Still for another incredible encounter with our Risen Lord! I used this time to study for a sermon series I’ll be preaching in the fall on spiritual [...]

A lovely visit
“It’s been a lovely visit for us. We had a chance to walk the trail and saw beautiful purple flowers abounding. A thunderstorm came through last night and transformed the [...]

A joy to unplug
“Thank you for this space to be quiet, to slow down, to be reminded that I am loved and valuable; not because of what I do, but because of whose [...]

Time with Jesus
“Thank you so much for your hospitality! It was wonderful to be able to have this special set aside time with Jesus as I discern future ministry and a potential [...]

Finding the time
“Finding the time to get away has always been difficult, but you all have made it so much easier to rest and be at peace! It was so quiet…. almost [...]

Exceeded expectations
“So grateful! The quiet and comfort exceeded our expectations. Coming from an intense ministry season in an urban environment overseas that is spiritually dark, physically crowded and noisy, this was [...]

Self-care
“Thank you! Self-care is hard for me. I take care of everyone else but myself. This has been a year of healing from past trauma. This retreat was part of [...]

Come and Be
“What can I write that hasn’t been said? Thank you. Thank you for this space to come out from the joy & burden of ministry. Thank you for the opportunity [...]

The finished work of Jesus
“Thank you for the opportunity to get away from the hustle & bustle of life & ministry. Being able to come and Be Still with my wife far exceeded what [...]

Time to refill
“Thank you Jesse & Lindsay for being courageous and faithful enough to follow the Lords’ calling to create this space. I pray continued blessings for you, your family and for [...]

God is all around
“God was, no God is, all around and in every breath, every cell. Thank you for the retreat space to see and experience Him in nature. We give you everything.” [...]

He is indeed God
“Thank you! I truly can’t put to words on paper how much this meant to me. Be Still…. I was. And it confirmed that He is indeed God and to [...]

A refuge through difficulty
“It’s a little difficult to articulate how much of a blessing this place/ministry has been for us. Restful, refreshing, timely, quiet. The ministry you have here has built up our [...]

Rested and Ready
“For many pastors, the weeks leading up to Christmas are full of delights, the capstone of the year. For me, along with certain delights and traditions… I emerge, post-Christmas: exhausted. [...]

Detangled
“I came knotted and tangled this visit. God was very patient with me through the detangling process. I learned that I have some habits from the fast pace of life [...]

An Oasis of Peace
“What a blessing to be here at this sweet still retreat. It was great to get away from everything to be quiet before the Lord after a very tough ministry [...]

God’s beautiful creation
“We are so thankful for this time away. It was a great retreat from ministry and our busy Chicago lives. We so appreciated being still and viewing Gods beautiful creation. [...]

Praise the Lord!
“Praise the Lord for this amazing place! It’s a huge blessing to me. I struggled a lot since I had been here last and this place is exactly what I [...]

Indulge in the quiet
“With 3 young kids at home (8,5,1) and homeschooling two of them, this was our first overnight getaway in three years. Thank you for making it possible and accessible! We [...]

Rest
“Ive been working full time ministry and a full time job for a few years. The Lord has been telling me to rest – thank you for this vision/ministry that [...]

Blessed to be a blessing
“We have six kids at home, six kids that we homeschool. We are also both involved in various areas of our community and Chris is the solo pastor at church. [...]

Rest, Reflection and Renewal
“I was so excited when I saw 3 days open here that matched the start date to my first sabbatical. It was a perfect way to begin this time of [...]

The nearness of Jesus
“My only complaint is that it was too short! Thank you for not only having this ministry, but for doing it with excellence. The cabin was not only practical in [...]

A place of refreshing
“You have provided a place of refreshing for me and countless others. You cultivated an atmosphere of God's presence that refreshes the body, soul and spirit. Thanks, is not enough [...]

From survival mode to overflowing
“I was hanging on to the hope of this mini vacation. With 3 kids under 5 I get worn out at home, then ministry and then again personally. I've been [...]

Grateful
“Having booked reservations months ago, only the Lord could have known the season I/my family would be in. So, so grateful for this space, for your hearts to care for [...]

A little bit of heaven
“I am leaving with a full heart feeling rested and restored. Thank you again for your generous hospitality in a setting free from distractions. Thanking you for bringing a little [...]

Oh my Soul
“As I watched the deer search for food and water, oh my soul too searched for God. The beauty of longing and meeting my beloved on a bench with birdsong, [...]

Healing is inevitable here
“Whenever I have the joy of staying at Be Still, I am reminded of the great need my soul has for rest and silence. Healing is inevitable here. Thank you [...]

It was like medicine
“A much needed place to truly Be Still, be quiet and rest. I looked forward to this for months. It was like medicine. Thank you for your service – your [...]

Being with Him
“It’s amazing what 24 hours in this space can do! God is present always, but having a space without distractions allowed me to be fully present with Him. Being with [...]

A space to renew and restore
“In twenty years as a healthcare chaplain, I have never been on a retreat as relaxing as this. Thank you for providing a space for the Holy Spirit to renew [...]

Kinship Casa
“Thank you so much for opening this beautiful home to our staff retreat this week! It has been a sweet time of fellowship and refreshment for our team and such [...]

Kinship Casa
“This has been such a wonderful gift from God. Thank you so much for allowing God to use you and your property in this way. The fireplace, the porch, the [...]

Kinship Casa
“Thank you again for letting us (all 7) enjoy your beautiful home. It was so good for all of us to be together in this transition time…..enjoying each other, seeking [...]

I meet with God differently here
“I love this place because I meet with God differently here, and feel so spoiled by the beauty of these houses every time. Be Still has given me an opportunity [...]

A healing, refreshing balm
"We can’t fully express how meaningful this time away has been for us. Thank you for providing this amazing setting for us to be away from the stresses of ministry, [...]

Under the stars
"The pastoral ministry is a 24 hour-a-day position. The opportunity to physically remove oneself and come to Be Still Retreats allowed my wife and I to reconnect mentally, emotionally and [...]

Play(in)field
I recently took a retreat at Be Still during a sabbatical leave from my ministry position of 16 years. In my prayer times before coming to Be Still, I’d been [...]

Overdue
"Our words cannot fully express how much your hospitality and ministry has meant to us. Thank you for letting the Lord use you as He is. We are coming to [...]

48 hours may not seem like much
"We want to thank you from the bottom of our hearts. What you are doing here for pastors and others who serve in vocational ministry is true ministry. 48 hours [...]

Vulnerability and authenticity
"To say that this was a great weekend for us would be a huge understatement. God knew we needed to be here and what a blessing this time was. We [...]

Writing and worship
"Thank you for this place, your generosity and all you do. These past few days have refreshed me! I was able to meet with God, get direction on this book [...]

This is really good
"Thank you so much for letting us stay so long while our son quarantined at our home. These two weeks of relative isolation here have been a real blessing to [...]

I finally got quiet
“I cannot even tell you how impactful your ministry is here at Be Still. Thank you, thank you one million times, thank you. God met me here when I finally [...]

The playlist
“My eyes welled with tears remembering that sacred space I experienced in that cabin. Those four days were so sacred. That space was safe. I could cry. I could laugh... [...]

I didn’t realize this was a space I could enter again
"Thank you for allowing me to spend time alone with God. Uninterrupted time. Time in complete silence. As I journaled “I didn’t realize this was a space I could [...]

With or without us
"Thanks so much for letting us stay here. It is wonderful, magical; might be my favorite place. So quiet and yet alive with animals and plants and sky. So beautiful. [...]



